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CriesOfTheGoth.com - Gallery Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! People often ask me how I deal with them confusing my real persona with the one associated with the adult industry. My simple answer is: "It doesn’t matter what people think; it’s their perspective, not mine." My website isn't designed to enlighten people about the real me, but rather to provide a place for those who are genuinely interested in knowing me. Whatever you choose to believe about me is okay, as we are all free to think how we want. This often leads to an important question I am frequently asked: "What attracts me most in people?" I am attracted to those who base their views on the understanding of knowledge, information, and truth, rather than on what things "look like." As for peopl...

CriesOfTheGoth.com - Gothic / My Life Philosophy Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! Everything you do at any moment is governed 100% by your programming—the teachings you received from schools, temples of worship, family, and society in general. The depth of this programming and your belief in it determine your actions and behaviors. But what if you were to delete everything you were taught by the media, schooling, and places of worship? Would that help you discover and follow the true path you set for yourself? The answer is always yes. The only reason you don’t follow your own true path is because your programming has set restrictive definitions and parameters that limit you from being your true self. The question then becomes: Why don’t we just delete everything we were indoctrinated with ...

CriesOfTheGoth.com - Landing page Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! Unless explicitly stated, please never assume anything about me. I live two distinct and separate lives: my business life and my vanilla life . Many people form a persona of me based on my online content, my involvement in the adult entertainment business since 2002, and the fact that I have multiple partners. However, these assumptions are often incorrect and not a true reflection of who I am. This can prevent people from understanding what I'm truly saying on my website, as they may only see what validates their preconceived notions. I wrote this document to ask you to read my website with a clear mind and without assumptions to understand the real meaning of my words. My online presence is extensive, as I allow peop...