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Understanding My Boundaries: Business vs. Vanilla Life

The only exceptions to the guidelines in this article are for my close friends circle. If you are in this circle, you will already know it. Many people form incorrect assumptions about me after finding me online or getting to know me through my life partner, Sara Mays. This article aims to clarify certain facts about myself. For a detailed understanding of who I am, please read my website CriesOfTheGoth.com carefully. This article will primarily focus on how to approach me, establish a relationship with me, and generally stay on my good side. EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: Unless I explicitly tell you something "specific", never assume it! I lead two distinct lives: my business life and my vanilla life. These two lives never mix and are very different from each other. I love and enjoy immensely what I do. However, my time is not free! My Business Life (Fetish Lifestyle and NSFW Content): For fetish play, you can refer to me as Mistress K. To be clear: if you wish to participate in my ...
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CriesOfTheGoth.com -Gallery

CriesOfTheGoth.com - Gallery Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! People often ask me how I deal with them confusing my real persona with the one associated with the adult industry. My simple answer is: "It doesn’t matter what people think; it’s their perspective, not mine." My website isn't designed to enlighten people about the real me, but rather to provide a place for those who are genuinely interested in knowing me. Whatever you choose to believe about me is okay, as we are all free to think how we want. This often leads to an important question I am frequently asked: "What attracts me most in people?" I am attracted to those who base their views on the understanding of knowledge, information, and truth, rather than on what things "look like." As for peopl...
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CriesOfTheGoth.com-Gothic

CriesOfTheGoth.com - Gothic / My Life Philosophy Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! Everything you do at any moment is governed 100% by your programming—the teachings you received from schools, temples of worship, family, and society in general. The depth of this programming and your belief in it determine your actions and behaviors. But what if you were to delete everything you were taught by the media, schooling, and places of worship? Would that help you discover and follow the true path you set for yourself? The answer is always yes. The only reason you don’t follow your own true path is because your programming has set restrictive definitions and parameters that limit you from being your true self. The question then becomes: Why don’t we just delete everything we were indoctrinated with ...
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CriesOfTheGoth.com - Landing page

CriesOfTheGoth.com - Landing page Note:  To comment or communicate about my personal website CriesOfTheGoth.com, please use the dedicated X post found below. Also feel free to comment on this blog as well. For comments please "Click Here" use this X post! Unless explicitly stated, please never assume anything about me. I live two distinct and separate lives: my business life and my vanilla life . Many people form a persona of me based on my online content, my involvement in the adult entertainment business since 2002, and the fact that I have multiple partners. However, these assumptions are often incorrect and not a true reflection of who I am. This can prevent people from understanding what I'm truly saying on my website, as they may only see what validates their preconceived notions. I wrote this document to ask you to read my website with a clear mind and without assumptions to understand the real meaning of my words. My online presence is extensive, as I allow peop...
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Subscribers Content Preference

I have decided to create a poll for all my fans who subscribe to me to determine the type of content they would like to see. The idea is I see which type of content has the most votes and I try to shoot it.  I have written categories that I am willing to do, most are quite standard and seen on my onlyfans. I will decide based on the outcome of the poll each week what I will shoot.  The idea behind this is to determine what type of content fans like to see and for me to experience new ideas. I have learned of various fetishes, likes that fans have spoken to me about and will try to incorporate them into my content.  One thing to keep in mind is that I am not mainstream, this content will be shot in an amateur, bitch next door type fashion. I will shoot the content to the best of my ability and with the props, lingerie that I have. The one thing I try to do is keep my content creative and different with each post.  I am eager to learn what my sweet pervs will c...
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Negative Reviews

This article is about writing consumer reviews, in particular negative reviews. Do you blame the particular store, where you received the bad service, or do you hold the entire chain responsible?  Every year I check my eyesight and change my glasses frames, so I decided to go to the same local optical frame store in my town that I used in the past and always had decent service. I was not aware that the entire staff had changed. The eye exam went well, the doctor who performed it was professional and patient, also my prescription actually improved.  I brought my own frame which I gave to the store so the lab can put in the new lenses with the new prescription. The clerk at the front desk told me that it will take about one to two weeks for the glasses to be ready, she seemed professional enough.  After two weeks, I phoned the store and was rudely told by a lady that seemed to want to brush me off rather than help, that the glasses are not ready and I need to wait an additi...
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Content Classification

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I am writing this article to detail my experience with Tumblr where I posted a photo shoot that, in my opinion, was artistic, personal self expression; which they seem to allow but was flagged to be in violation of their guidelines.  I would like to know if other creators are facing this dilemma of getting flagged and not knowing why?  Recently, I learned that Tumblr allows postings of mature themes, (nudity included) Click on image below to enlarge within the realm of personal, artistic self expression. I posted a few photos , labeled them “Mature” according to Tumblr policy, but my post still got flagged in violation of community guidelines. In addition, Tumblr did not mention which of my photos caused the violation.  After surfing Tumblr I did come across many creators whose posts clearly were sexual in nature, yet they are viewable to the public and not flagged.  It reinforces my belief that specific creators get preferential treatment and the community guideline...
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