My Writings

As the title suggests, I am writing this article for those who come to profiles and engage in DM or comments with the creator only to force their negative opinion on them. Profiles are written for a reason,  that is to explain what the person is all about, what they are looking for and NOT looking for from others. It is uncanny to me that people message blindly without reading carefully, they read to validate what they have in their head about the creator, not what is actually written and the true meaning the creator is  trying to convey.  There are three things I will be addressing in this article,  first sending DM's, commenting on profiles of people that have nothing in common with you, you don't like but feel the need to share your needless usually negative unwanted opinion, second the indoctrinated by society that all women slobber over dick pix. and lastly findom bashing which I see on here alot.  I have written an article about this before, but I feel the...

 **A brief draft of thoughts on the subject** Understanding a fetish is a unique talent. I define a fetish as an erotic sensation or action that sexuallly stimulates a person in such a manner that it becomes a great and intricate part of thier inner psycology. BDSM and fetish is not torture and inflicting severe pain, barking random orders and thinking that is the true meaning of Domme/Mistress.  As a Mistress, I have taken the time to experience the fetishes that I use on my subs/slaves. My life partner *(since high school, I haven't been with anyone else in any way that is sexual)* and I have delved into various fetishes to experience, understand on a profound level, the feeling of these fetishes; bondage, humiliation all under my command and guidance, so I can derive pleasure. Not all acts I enjoyed, but it was to gain experience and play a character, to clear the path of me becoming a Mistress.  I ONLY performed these acts with my life partner and no one else. Let me ...

 Domination and Submission (Mistress K Perspective)  A draft version for thoughts I was first introduced to BDSM at a fetish ball in my town over a decade ago, and it was intriguing to say the least. I had little knowledge of how the dynamic worked between dom and sub/slave. There was an area in the club setup as a dungeon and it was explained to me that slaves were all on the floor wearing restraints and various attire like collars, masks to show their role. Dom’s were beside them ensuring their obedience and servitude.  I have since adopted the role of Mistress which I think suits me well. I have learned a great deal of knowledge of the mind of a submissive man specifically (I have not worked with females), which to me is not just a sexual fetish to “get off” but rather a way of giving up control of their sexuality to another person a Mistress or Dominant  who will decide how and when to do which fetish.  We label these submissive males as sissies, their manho...

Men seeking online sexual pleasures, why do they do it? Addiction? Are they entrenched in a life that does not allow them to explore their erotic desires, therefore the only means for them is online cam models? This podcast will shed some light on this issue from a neutral standpoint by answering some questions. Since Gen X times and before there is much evolution in terms of sexuality going more public and becoming less taboo. Most of the time in a marriage that has spanned a high number of years, one party always is more in tuned with sexuality than the other which can often lead to conflict, misunderstandings.  Let me start by saying, as an online virtual Mistress/Domme sex worker I do not control who comes to my profile nor do I ask about their personal lives, as to me I am providing a virtual service they are seeking.  In my opinion on why married men seek online sexual pleasures, because they cannot express their true fetishes or sexual needs in real life, online they ar...

Introduction I wrote this article to illustrate my opinion that payroll jobs simply do not measure up to today's cost of living. The sacrifices a human being is forced to make, eating unhealthy, no life, sleep deprivation, no time to deal with important matters like landlord issues, banking, medical appointments all are backlogged. Jobs today are designed to keep the worker on the edge enough so he does not quit. However the slightest anomaly comes up unexpectedly the person is literally screwed into debt. This article will be about the simple fact that the job market has changed for the worse and it does not pay to work out there, the cost went up to the sky and the income remained the same or in some cases decreased.  I will only speak from my perspective and former experience in the job market which had very little positive and more negative. I worked many types of jobs, from customer service, administration and it was always the same pattern: exhaustion, no time, no life, just...

Communicating with Female-Live Streamers - SFW and NSFW - Do’s and don’ts Introduction: My name is Kissra and I work as an online virtual live streamer (I do not meet in person hence the term online virtual live streamer) on popular NSFW/SFW platforms. I am writing this article to quash numerous preconceived misconceptions about being an online live streamer that the users who come to my live stream have, and at the same time for those who wish to learn about the industry, what it entails if you decide to venture into it. I will explain common misconceptions users have when they see a live streamer online, this applies to both SFW and NSFW. Also, the differences in the types of models, independent and call center/agency.  This article will detail my personal experiences over the time that I have been an online streamer, the pros. cons, correct methods to approach a streamer whether on SFW or NSFW platform.  Also, I will share certain knowledge that I have gained about platform...