Fantasy VS Reality

 

I am writing this to explain from my perspective the difference between fantasy and reality. I am a content creator, I do both NSFW and SFW. I have an onlyfans where I post video content which I was paid to do, and I did it with my long-term partner. (Read our websites and you will see how long we have been together and our content, social media spans many years) 

Various fans request different types of content that they like to see. I as a content creator try my best to create content for their requests and make it look as realistic as I can, this does not mean I like the acts I am doing, it's just business. 

Do porn actors love all the acts they do in their movies? Are these actors like that in  real life where all they think about is sex? No, they are paid actors performing. 

When I started doing NSFW content,  I experimented different sexual acts with my longterm partner and some I enjoyed, other stuff I did not, but, one must always have an  open mind to try things as long as (in my case) it is done safely and consensually.  

Let me be clear, when I say I did not enjoy certain acts such as anal,or some fetishes that I acted out; it does not mean that I was forced to do it or that I was ever abused in  any way shape or form. One must distinguish fantasy from reality when it comes to adult content.  

As a creator, I try to create a fantasy in the mind of the fan who requests the content and act it out as best I can. These experiences molded and shaped my position as a creator today, I learned a lot from fans, and other creators as well. Most of the time when fans request content, they want certain fetishes or sexual acted out as they have no REAL venue to get it the way that will satisfy their sexual urge. Normally that comes from their partner who is not willing to do these acts or fetishes, other times the embarrassment and shame factor kicks in so the only venue is an online content creator such as myself. 

I have hard limits and red lines that I NEVER cross and will NEVER cross, some of which include meeting random strangers for sexual acts, doing anything that is illegal, drugs, etc. 

I post content regularly on social media which is generally what I think users want to see and I try to give a glimpse of what it's like to be me, hence my website explains all that. 

I also post things I like on my website CriesOfTheGoth.com in the real me section.

People need to start waking up and realize what is fake and what is real, the media brainwashed people into believing things literally and not being able to distinguish fantasy from reality. One needs to understand content creators are actors, they may not enjoy the acts they are doing but, they are only trying to make it look realistic and the acts are consensual not forced and there is NO form of abuse in doing the act. 

There are some fans who attempt to look for a long term partner on platforms like OnlyFans, Camsites, FetLife (ALL NSFW), then you have the infamous TikTok where when a female model is live, automatically users think she is after a man, and a plethora of DM’s come in asking for dates, marriage proposals in some cases, or sexual encounters. Understand female models go live on social media as an outlet to make money and at the same time gain followers, nothing more. Rarely they are looking for a man for sexual acts. Just because a woman is a single online content creator does not mean she wants, needs or is craving a man. This rarely works! Most female online creators especially OnlyFans either have a partner, or if they don’t they prefer to remain single, less problems. 

So in conclusion, stop believing literally everything you see on pornsites, OnlyFans its a consensual paid act between two people, nothing more. Enough of the she is abused, she does not enjoy it all this bullshit, all this is an attempt to stifle online NSFW female creators that have potential to make it in the online industry from progressing. 

If you are one of those people who takes things literally and cannot distinguish between fantasy and reality, paid actors doing a job then you need therapy, stop watching porn it's not for you, after therapy go to your chosen place of worship and start praying to whatever sky fairy floats your boat. You belong among the sheeple who believe what the media tells them, you are brainwashed and do not have full use of your brain, maybe after extensive therapy you might see the light! 

KB.