Understanding My Boundaries: Business vs. Vanilla Life

The only exceptions to the guidelines in this article are for my close friends circle. If you are in this circle, you will already know it.

Many people form incorrect assumptions about me after finding me online or getting to know me through my life partner, Sara Mays. This article aims to clarify certain facts about myself.

For a detailed understanding of who I am, please read my website CriesOfTheGoth.com carefully. This article will primarily focus on how to approach me, establish a relationship with me, and generally stay on my good side.

EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: Unless I explicitly tell you something "specific", never assume it!

I lead two distinct lives: my business life and my vanilla life. These two lives never mix and are very different from each other.

I love and enjoy immensely what I do. However, my time is not free!

My Business Life (Fetish Lifestyle and NSFW Content):

For fetish play, you can refer to me as Mistress K.

To be clear: if you wish to participate in my fetish/NSFW content, the only venue is my website CriesOfTheGoth.com. It lists specific instructions and steps to follow, ensuring quality, safety, and mutual agreements. I will not make any exceptions.

Never mix my business (i.e., fetish/NSFW) with my vanilla life!

My Vanilla Life:

In my vanilla life, my name is Kissra. I do not believe in religions, I am not interested in politics, and I will absolutely not discuss anything pertaining to my business life mentioned above.

I am in a unique polyamorous relationship with three people. We do not have an open relationship and are not looking to add anyone new to our polycule. However, we are allowing our life partner, Sara (a trans woman), to date and connect with other people as she goes through her ongoing transition on hormones. Our polycule is also open to the idea of accepting a new member to join our polyamorous family should Sara choose.

If you happen to see me in person in a public setting, please do not approach me about anything related to my business as I am in my vanilla normal life. You may approach and say “hello, how are you? Nice to see you”. Do not be flirty or sexual in any way, treat me normal. I do not mix business which includes fetish content/play or anything adult related, if you are interested in this aspect please visit my website CriesOfTheGoth.com, read the information, and follow the instructions provided. If you do approach me with anything related to my business in my normal vanilla life setting I will view it as extremely negative.

Conclusion:

I engage in NSFW content, including fetish/Mistress play, as a business. Do not mix this with my vanilla life.

Important: My interest in men is confined to my business as mentioned above.

I am lesbian. In my vanilla life, if you have a penis, I am "Sister Mary Habit from The Universal Church" to you. I expect you to treat me as such, meaning: do not flirt, compliment, try to date me, or propose anything remotely sexual. Now, if you are interested in my partner Sara Mays, speak directly to her. Do not, under any circumstances, use her to try and get to know me; I will react very negatively to that approach.