My Writings

 **A brief draft of thoughts on the subject** Understanding a fetish is a unique talent. I define a fetish as an erotic sensation or action that sexuallly stimulates a person in such a manner that it becomes a great and intricate part of thier inner psycology. BDSM and fetish is not torture and inflicting severe pain, barking random orders and thinking that is the true meaning of Domme/Mistress.  As a Mistress, I have taken the time to experience the fetishes that I use on my subs/slaves. My life partner *(since high school, I haven't been with anyone else in any way that is sexual)* and I have delved into various fetishes to experience, understand on a profound level, the feeling of these fetishes; bondage, humiliation all under my command and guidance, so I can derive pleasure. Not all acts I enjoyed, but it was to gain experience and play a character, to clear the path of me becoming a Mistress.  I ONLY performed these acts with my life partner and no one else. Let me ...

 Domination and Submission (Mistress K Perspective)  A draft version for thoughts I was first introduced to BDSM at a fetish ball in my town over a decade ago, and it was intriguing to say the least. I had little knowledge of how the dynamic worked between dom and sub/slave. There was an area in the club setup as a dungeon and it was explained to me that slaves were all on the floor wearing restraints and various attire like collars, masks to show their role. Dom’s were beside them ensuring their obedience and servitude.  I have since adopted the role of Mistress which I think suits me well. I have learned a great deal of knowledge of the mind of a submissive man specifically (I have not worked with females), which to me is not just a sexual fetish to “get off” but rather a way of giving up control of their sexuality to another person a Mistress or Dominant  who will decide how and when to do which fetish.  We label these submissive males as sissies, their manho...