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Understanding My Boundaries: Business vs. Vanilla Life

The only exceptions to the guidelines in this article are for my close friends circle. If you are in this circle, you will already know it. Many people form incorrect assumptions about me after finding me online or getting to know me through my life partner, Sara Mays. This article aims to clarify certain facts about myself. For a detailed understanding of who I am, please read my website carefully. This article will primarily focus on how to approach me, establish a relationship with me, and generally stay on my good side. EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: Unless I explicitly tell you something, never assume it! I lead two distinct lives: my business life and my vanilla life. These two lives never mix and are very different from each other. My Business Life (Fetish Lifestyle and NSFW Content): For fetish play, you can refer to me as Mistress K. To be clear: if you wish to participate in my business-related fetish/NSFW content, the only venue is my website. It lists specific instructions and steps ...

Fantasy VS Reality

  I am writing this to explain from my perspective the difference between fantasy and reality. I am a content creator, I do both NSFW and SFW. I have an onlyfans where I post video content which I was paid to do, and I did it with my long-term partner. (Read our websites and you will see how long we have been together and our content, social media spans many years)  Various fans request different types of content that they like to see. I as a content creator try my best to create content for their requests and make it look as realistic as I can, this does not mean I like the acts I am doing, it's just business.  Do porn actors love all the acts they do in their movies? Are these actors like that in  real life where all they think about is sex? No, they are paid actors performing.  When I started doing NSFW content,  I experimented different sexual acts with my longterm partner and some I enjoyed, other stuff I did not, but, one must always have an  ope...

Why Are You Here?

As the title suggests, I am writing this article for those who come to profiles and engage in DM or comments with the creator only to force their negative opinion on them. Profiles are written for a reason,  that is to explain what the person is all about, what they are looking for and NOT looking for from others. It is uncanny to me that people message blindly without reading carefully, they read to validate what they have in their head about the creator, not what is actually written and the true meaning the creator is  trying to convey.  There are three things I will be addressing in this article,  first sending DM's, commenting on profiles of people that have nothing in common with you, you don't like but feel the need to share your needless usually negative unwanted opinion, second the indoctrinated by society that all women slobber over dick pix. and lastly findom bashing which I see on here alot.  I have written an article about this before, but I feel the...